Inheritance From Dickson Idlier

即使生氣， 還是忍不住關心你， 這才是真正愛你的人。 Translated as : Even if angry, Still can't help but care about you, This is the one who truly loves you.

Translated as : Sometimes obscenities are ten thousand times cleaner than lies. Direct people are ten thousand times more real than scheming and pretentious people. I'll accept obscenities anytime compared to lies. Worse if they came from scheming and pretentious people whom you trust. However, be grateful to these people as they will give you a lesson that you will never forget. Hatred towards such people is just like holding a hot potato, it only hurts yourself but does nothing to the other person. —— Dickson Idlier

Regardless of what circumstances we are facing or in, we need to overcome and get over it. They are just experiences and lessons that appear in your life and your response determines the outcome. Remember, nothing lasts. Below your means would allow you to let go of excessive and live with essentials. Giving you more space and freedom. —— Dickson Idlier

Only by taking breaks when you are tired, you gain the energy to go on. Do something else or just watch the little bird for a while. Clear your thoughts and relax your mind. Just believe in yourself and do your best. If it fails or mistakes made, it doesn't matter. Treat it as a lesson learned and experience gained. —— Dickson Idlier

As the saying goes, "What goes around comes around." Whatever actions you do now, the subsequent results will come back to you. Just like farming, sow good seeds now will have a good harvest later on. Karma may be slow, so at least do not have harmful thoughts towards others. —— Dickson Idlier

Greed, like desire, is a bottomless pit. It can never be satisfied as you can never have enough. It is greed that is killing the Earth right now. It gives a false sense of security. Be content, treasure what you already have then you will be more easily satisfied. Isn't satisfaction what you try to attain? After that, how about peace of mind as well. —— Dickson Idlier

No matter what, having a positive attitude matters!  Attitude determines your response. It can be heavenly or hellish to yourself and others around you. Which one would you choose? — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译词：你不可能总是有好的一天。但你总是可以用良好的态度面对糟糕的一天。 不管怎样，积极的态度很重要！态度决定你的反应。对你自己和你周围的人来说，它可以是天堂，也可以是地狱。你会选哪一个？ — 闲人·迪克森

For things you want, you must put in lots of effort, determination and planning to get it. Why? Cos nobody ever treasures anything easy to get. — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译词： 在生活中，您真正想要的将永远得来不易。 对于你想要的东西，你必须付出大量的努力、决心和计划去得到它。为什么？因为没人会珍惜容易得到的东西。 — 闲人·迪克森

Everyone has a different question paper so don't let others' grades affect you. Worse if you try copying others. Failing or passing is how you perceive it. Not grades. Grades are insignificant. As long as you are happy, does it matter if you failed? — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译词：生活是最困难的考试。许多人失败是因为他们尝试复制他人，不了解每个人都有不同的试卷。 每个人都有不同的试卷，所以不要让其他人的成绩影响您。如果您尝试复制其他人, 那更糟糕。失败或及格看您如何看待它。不是成绩。成绩微不足道。只要您感到幸福，就算失败了有关系吗？ — 闲人·迪克森

Too many people are concerned about materialistic riches but ignored the riches in the soul. Being human, we have to learn to be compassionate, forgiving and learn to let go to gain the riches in our hearts. — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译词：致富不是你所拥有的在您的银行帐户中，但是你内心深处。 太多的人关注唯物主义的财富，却忽视了灵魂的财富。做人，我们必须学会富有同情心，宽容并学会放手去获得内心的丰富。 — 闲人·迪克森

Desires overwhelmed our minds, leading to never-ending materialistic pursues. However, it only quenches our cravings for a while but never satisfies it. Only by being contented with what you have, curbing the desire, and enjoy the happiness already within our grasp. — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译词：幸福不是得到你想要的一切，而是享受你所拥有的一切。 欲望压倒了我们的头脑，导致了永无止境的物质追求。然而，它只会暂时抑制我们的欲望，却永远无法满足它。只有满足于你所拥有的，抑制欲望，享受我们已经掌握的幸福。 —— 闲人·迪克森

You need to be deaf to all negative thoughts and words around you and just focus on what you want to do. We cannot change what other people thinks or believes but we can stick to ours. Prove it by succeeding what you set to accomplish, like the deaf frog. Action speaks louder than words. Don't you agree? — Dickson Idlier 图片翻译： 一只青蛙决定爬到树顶。所有的青蛙都喊：“不可能，不可能。”青蛙还是到了山顶，怎么了？因为他是聋子…他以为每个人都在鼓励他到达山顶。 “如果您的目标是实现自己的目标，请对生活中的负面想法充耳不闻。” 你需要对周围所有消极的想法和话语充耳不闻，只专注于你想做的事情。我们不能改变别人的想法或信仰，但我们可以坚持自己的想法。通过成功完成你设定的目标来证明这一点，就像聋青蛙一样。行动胜于雄辩。你同意吗？ —— 闲人·迪克森

Don't be stubborn and let go. Some things cannot be forced in life. Accept it and grief all you want but after that, move on. Never get stuck in one place and cannot move forward. That is so stupid and it does not change anything except make you suffer, right? —— Dickson Idlier 图片翻译： 注定的事情总会发生。如果不是，还有更好的东西等着你。   不要固执，放手。生活中有些事情是不能强求的。接受它，尽情悲伤，但在那之后，继续前进。永远不要被困在一个地方，无法前进。这太愚蠢了，除了让你痛苦，什么也改变不了，对吗？ —— 闲人·迪克森

By cultivating the above habits, you will surely be a happier person. These habits sound simple but challenging to follow. Another way of interpretation is as follows: Keep a low profile. Never compare with anyone. Silence is the best to respond. Think before you talk. Understand what you want in life. Then slowly work towards it. Have compassion and kindness to all living things. Only you can make yourself happy. Try to work out what works. Avoid other people's problems, negative people, and anything that affects your peace of mind. —— Dickson Idlier 图片翻译： 快乐的人的习惯: 1.不要炫耀 2.少说话 3.每天学习 4.帮助不幸的人 5.每天开怀大笑 6.忽略废话   通过养成上述习惯，您一定会变得更快乐。这些习惯听起来很简单，但很难遵循。另一种解释方法如下： 保持低调。永远不要与任何人比较。 沉默是最好的回应。说话之前要三思。 了解您想要的生活。然后慢慢努力地朝向它。 对所有生物抱有同情心和仁慈。 只有你才能使自己快乐。尝试找出有效的方法。 避免别人的问题，消极的人，以及任何影响你内心平静的事情。 —— 闲人·迪克森

Image by Borko Manigoda from Pixabay Your money is truly yours only upon spending it. Not your salary or savings in the bank. Not some fix assets or investment you made. Why not? Because these money that you "earned" that is supposedly yours is actually not yours yet. However, if you were to die now, all yours will be handed over to someone else right? That is why owning something is useless unless you use it, or in this context, spend it. —— Dickson Idlier * I must emphasize that I do not mean spending all the money you have and don't plan for the future. Spend money wisely, buying essentials is justifiable. Over-consumerism is not. My opinion is leaving money to your family members is best with a mixture of insurance and investment, especially your spouse and children. But they need to rely on themselves as well. Knowing how to live is better than a fat bank account. 你的钱只有花了才是真正的你的。不是你的薪水或银行存款。不是你做的固定资产或投资。为什么不？因为这些你“挣”来的钱本该属于你的，实际上还不是你的。但是，如果你现在死了，你的一切都会交给别人，对吗？这就是为什么...

Life is short. Don't waste time thinking and spending time making money and wasting it from other more worthy events or people. Money cannot be compared with time. Money can be earned but time lost is lost forever. —— Dickson Idlier So why so much pride, so much malice, so much envy, so much hate, so much resentment, so much selfishness? You came naked. You will also leave naked. You arrived weak. So weak you will depart. You came without money and things. You will leave without money and things. Your first bath? Someone washed you away. Your last bath? Someone will wash you away. This is our fate as humans! We have limited time in this world and we waste it in uselessness.💙

Translated as: What is happiness? Poor people said: Being rich is happiness The disabled said: Being able to walk is happiness Blind people say: To see is happiness Beggar said: Having food is happiness The patient said: Being alive is happiness For different people, happiness is usually to obtain what they don't have. The happiness we want can be very simple and straightforward. However, when you have it, you don’t cherish it but wanting something better or more. Greed clouds your sight from happiness. Thus, happiness is simply to cherish what you have, not keep chasing something better. —— Dickson Idlier

对不同人来说，幸福都是不一样的。但是，要的幸福却是很直接，很简单。不过，往往要追求的幸福是得不到的，才珍贵。可是当你拥有后，却不珍惜。要更好或更多。到头来全是一场空。所以，幸福是要珍惜你所拥有的。而不是傻傻的追求的得不到的。 —— 闲人·迪克森

Image by  Borko Manigoda  from  Pixabay Never argue with a fool. It only wastes your time and effort. It is an insult to your intelligence. If you do, then it is your eagerness to win at fault. Then don’t complain people not listening to you. Stupid! —— Dickson Idlier Sometimes silence is the best reply. Not worth wasting time thinking what is the best way to respond.  —— Dickson Idlier

Image by Borko Manigoda from Pixabay 千万不要跟一个傻瓜争辩。这只会浪费您的时间和精力。如果你这样做，那时无为的好胜心作祟。那就不要抱怨人家不听你的。愚蠢！ —— 闲人·迪克森