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闲人语录 — 可悲的事实

人犯了很长时间的不合逻辑的错误。为物质财产赚钱以提高社会地位,并为将来的“美好生活”做准备,忽视他的健康,过着不会死的生活。错误是不在当下,永远不要考虑如果你死得比你预期的早会怎么样。如果你现在不清醒来改变你的生活重心,那么生命中宝贵的时刻就会错过或丢失。生活中有比金钱更重要的事情,比如和家人、朋友在一起,留下纪念性的回忆或经历。这些并不占用太多时间,但却是生活中更有意义的事件。如果这些东西丢了,钱是买不回来的。珍惜每一刻,活在当下,不要错过才后悔。

—— 闲人·迪克森




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