Inheritance From Dickson Idlier

Image generated by Gemini My wife Wendy and me booked a flight to Bangkok more than 6 months earlier. Took quite a while for my wife to go for a holiday in Bangkok, after COVID, which is more than 3 years ago for our last Bangkok trip. Booked the 8:10am Thai Airways flight and realized that taking the first MRT train(around 5:30am and MRT station is at Changi Terminal 2) will not be able to make it by 7:10am for check-in to Thai Airway counter. So we had to take a Grab ride to Changi Airport Terminal 1. My wife even paid for the online check-in for Thai Airway. Since we reach around 6.45am at Changi Airport Terminal 1, we have enough time to play with to check-in and board the flight.  When we went to look for local SIM(AIS Tourist SIM 8 days@299baht for 30GB and 399baht for unlimited data) at CentralWorld(Biggest shopping mall in Asia), there is really no discount on the local SIM but at least you have someone to assist you to get the local SIM working on your phone, which is my R...

Image generated from Gemini      Wendy and me booked a Bangkok trip from 1 - 6 Oct 2025. There was some hiccups due to the flight to Bangkok from Jetstar has been cancelled due to Jetstar closed its operation. We had to book Scoot again. Really troublesome but still managed to fly to Bangkok.      Since this time Wendy does the planning, I just followed her. But found out she know nothing and had to figure out some stuff out like local SIM purchase, taking the metro service to our destination and some minor issues that gets resolved ultimately.     Since we thought we did not buy any check-in luggage, we brought two 20 inch hard cases for this trip. She finally pack lite for an overseas trip. We only filled 3/4 of the luggage and expect to buy a Bangkok trolley back to accommodate our purchases.     I did my research using ChatGPT and Gemini for this round instead of Google Search. Results are pretty promising, except for some results t...

Image from https://www.vecteezy.com/vector-art/224232-keto-diet-pyramid  Ketogenic diet is gaining popularity in recent years and shows promising results to a range of health problems, including obesity and type 2 diabetes. The general idea for this diet is consuming low carbs (rice, sugar, bread, noodles, etc), moderate protein (meat or beans) and high fat food (fatty cut meat or fruits rich in fat like avocado). Do note all the food mentioned are unprocessed food. Food must be in its raw form as much as possible and no added flavoring, preservatives or chemicals. This is one of the main turnoff for me. Such food is usually more expensive compared to processed food, which for me is not easily achieved as I am an idler, so expenses are kept to the minimum.  The main similarities of ketogenic diet and fasting is getting the body to switch from burning glucose to burning fats .  I did research on ketogenic diet by reading articles and videos in Youtube....

Photo by eminumana: https://www.pexels.com/photo/person-on-red-grocery-cart-2871490/ 要你独立不是我的本意，我太累了是我的真心 。。。 闲人·迪克森 我累了。。。 我不想再这样生活了。我认为我的努力没有任何价值。不要把我的体贴当成必然的。我的溺爱造成我现在的状况。我妻子变成一个依赖我的人。原本只是想幫她减轻她家庭负担，让她好过一点。却变成这样的下场。可能以前我管的太多，变的她和我岳母一样，做事靠张嘴的坏习惯。也许这是我的家庭传统，是靠本事说话，我很难认可这么一个家庭。 不要把我当作一个工具人 。我是一个有血有肉的一个人。嗨。。。 有一次，我注意到她对我这个游手好闲的人并不满意。尽管她确实提到她很感激我为她做饭，但我仍然认为我有一些不满。她只是抱怨“她登上了海盗船”，这是我们过去常说的关于我们关系的笑话，她似乎是认真的。这让我很不开心，感觉我所做的与赚钱相比似乎有些不足。她除了赚钱，回家只看电视和Shoppee直播，坐在沙发上，直到最近在商业休息时，当我准备晚餐时，才有所帮助。我也想让我的妻子为我做饭，照顾我，而不是总是依赖我来照顾她。在2023年3月20日，我告诉她我想自私一次，完全不想再打理任何事情。 女人不可以不独立。不能每次要被当公主伺候着。有事时就想老公，没事时不当一回事。从工作里找成功感，因为生活找不到，是可以。但是不要埋怨工作忙，工作累。这是你自找的。你什么都是为了你家人，有空才想到我。当你把家人放在第一位是，就不要后悔你不是老公的第一位。 过日子是这样过的吗？ 助人着自助。帮助别人的人也要快乐才可以帮助别人。我不快乐了。我累了。我什么都不想管，不想做了。我要放很长很长的假。我是个男人但我不想这样走下去。这样过日子太没意思，太累了对我来说。 我终于得到了当之无愧的休息、走上了成为真正闲人的道路。 •••••••••••❅──────✧❅✦❅✧──────❅•••••••••••

Image by  Tumisu  from  Pixabay When something becomes an obsession, the problem starts... Dickson Idlier Is obsessed filial piety a problem? How can filial piety becomes an obsession? My wife may not be the only one who is in this state and in denial. She has become a 'mother' to her mother, worrying that she get bullied, buy necessities for them, make every decision that they have to make. However, what she did not realize was that this mother had become an "ignorant child" under her obsessive care, unable to make correct judgments, completely relying on her for almost everything in daily life, and almost unable to take care of herself completely and properly. This is a sad scene that I noticed but due to my wife's obsession, there is nothing I can do and let her repay her 'debt' to her parents. Because anything related to her family is sensitive, it's a fact she doesn't want to face.".Some background on these two woman: My wife has been ind...

Photo by eminumana: https://www.pexels.com/photo/person-on-red-grocery-cart-2871490/ It is not my intention to ask you to be independent, is I am truly too tired . . . Dickson Idlier I don't want to live like this anymore. I don't think my efforts are worth anything. Don't take my consideration for granted. My indulgence has caused my current situation. My wife has become a dependent person on me. Originally, I just wanted to help her alleviate the burden on her family and make her feel better. But it turned out like this. Maybe I used to manage too much, and she became like my mother-in-law in the bad habit of relying on her mouth to do things. Don't use me as a tool man(Simp) . I am a person with flesh and blood. Sigh... Once, I noticed that she wasn't satisfied with me as a loafer. Although she did mention that she appreciated me cooking for her, I still think I have some dissatisfaction. She just complained that "she boarded the pirate ship," which was...

[ If you cannot convince people who are in denial, don't bother. They are in their own world and they don't trust you enough to listen to you. Let them be. — Dickson Idlier]

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